For some reason, I can't explain she totally caters to and spoils Lydia. Lydia chooses the games and tells Ashley what to do. And yes, the power does go to Lydia's head! After playing with Ashley for awhile, Lydia thinks that I will cater to and spoil her also.
Yesterday, we had such an incident. Lydia was giving orders and throwing a fit when I did not drop everything to meet her requests.
Me: You can't just boss everyone around. You do not always get your way, and can not throw a fit about it. Lydia stop acting like a little queen. You aren't a little queen are you?
Lydia: No, mom. I am a princess!
Oh, my mistake!